Truly Disappointing

Friday, April 07, 2006

Bras, Valium, and Moz- TD's Version of Sex, Drugs, and Rock n Roll

well i went and got my haircut by a "professional." yeeeah, i have never had a longer fuckin hair wash than today. she was all over my head and was practically scrubbing it. ok do i look like i have the mange? you dont need to scrub yo. and as she was scrubbing it she scratched my face with her nail. serious issues. so i got a layer-y kinda thing. its slightly more choppy than i had envisioned but its not bad. i do have some pieces up front that now wont pull back into a ponytail so im sure ill be driven nuts by them for a while, but im fairly pleased. the layers make my hair look like it has some wave to it funny enough. no stick straight hair here right now. and christopher, i meant hair long enough that its down to my boobs. but yeah, i should know better than to be kinda ambiguous. lol!

as for the valium, well hey if youve got some to pass around... naw, im seriously cool now. im thinking the crimson wave had something to do with it. ive never been too nutty during that time, but maybe i just finally had something to be nutty about this week. i think i need to get back on the pill because it seemed to keep me more even and less crampy. plus you know, the whole preventing birth thing is a good idea too. lol!

as for sleepovers, yeah kt you hit the nail right on the head. you dont wanna seem too girly girl girly with your routine but then again you also dont wanna be coming to bed and getting up with a face mask or whatever the cliched image is. where the guy sees you come out of the bathroom and wonders where his girlfriend went. you get the idea. my biggest thing is my brows as ive discussed before. id hate to wake up with them missing. lol! but they are growing out fairly well now so whatever. but still, its stress. but alas a necessity, sleeping over i mean. and kt, i didnt get the reference, i forget what it was, when you mentioned distance not working well. please remind... oh yeah, to our male readers, if you would comment on your thoughts on the sleepover girly routine issue. im curious to see what guys really think about it all...

so yeah, im in the middle of changing the kitty boxes and i have a load of wash in the machine. i also did the dishes and will embark on putting my laundry away. and yes, i will eventually take the trash out. i swear, i hate that chore the most. if i ever live with anyone again i will bargain away everything just so i dont have to take out the garbage. and if i could bargain out of kitty scooping id do that too. thats fair, right? i clean everything else including the bathroom for the other person scooping kitty and taking garbage out. i think its fair. lol!

oh i also went on the great bra search again. i swear to god! i did find a couple of bras but they arent very cutesy vickis cute. theyre kinda like sports bras but actually have cups and underwire and look more bra-like but with that nice sporty silky material. hey theyre better than what i have now which even the clerk said looked dowdy. and these im wearing now dont have underwire and i quickly realized i needed it. i will never win this battle, i realize that. whoever is taking off my shirt and later my bra just has to deal with the fact that i like my boobs to be in place and not move or pooch out or be lifted like the st pauley girl's boobs or padded or demi-thised or demi-thated. i will sacrifice cutesy for functionality. then again if im buying something for the "boudoir" it probably wont be on long so functionality plays less of a role. but still, all these bra makers need to do is glue lace-y shit or whatever to the functional bras and theyd be cuter. or make them in fun colors. why they dont do that i will never know yo. seriously...

oh yeah, i couldnt believe it the other day, but target sells moz! i bought his new cd and have listened to most of it. i gotta say i was skeptical when all the music mags said it was a return to old school moz, but they were right. he isnt so angry and l.a. anymore. so far the albums good and it has this boom boom quality to it in places, very nice. and the kids choir is a nice touch. ironic. and from the article i read in rolling stone moz apparently has finally gotten laid, or at least admitted to it. when asked about his sexual activity and whether hes gotten laid moz said, "well its about time dont you think?" oh yes moz it is about time. mazeltov! im so glad youve gotten some action yo. so does this mean the stars are in alignment for some crazy paradigm shiftin action around these parts? who knows, but one can hope so. because if moz can have sex and admit it, well shit, anything can happen.

so yeah, so far my raiden-free weekend is going along swimmingly. and im ok about it. im beginning to truly believe this is a good thing. i am not that nutty girl. i do have a life...even if it is kinda dull. lol! hmmm maybe anything can happen.....

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    By Blogger Christopher, at 6:38 PM  

  • I'm only posting this comment because you asked for it, so here ya go ...

    "you dont wanna seem too girly girl girly with your routine but then again you also dont wanna be coming to bed and getting up with a face mask or whatever the cliched image is."


    Every guy is different, so I'm only speaking from my experience, but I think there are two areas of sleepover concern (your concern, not mine): 1. how you look when you go to bed and 2. how long you take in the morning -- right?

    I'm painting with broad strokes here, so bear with me.

    I'm going to address the latter first -- we (I) don't care how long you lock yourself in the bathroom in the morning. Do what you need to do. I think we're all old enough (for the purpose of context, I just turned 30) to know that women generally spend time with accessories and accoutrements and liquids in the morning. I have no idea what they're used for, but it's what you do, and I accept that. Personally, I prefer a natural look (as little make-up etc as possible), but, hey, it's your body and your routine, so don't worry about. We don't. And if you're with a guy who gives you shit about it, then tell him to go wait by the "ice-box" in the kitchen because apparently he's still in 1950.

    As for the girly routine before bed ... Mmmm, that's a little more complicated, but I'll try to be brief (I feel like I'm hijacking your site). If you plan on having sex, then, for the love of god, do your routine AFTER sex. I know you want to smell nice and feel pretty, but there is no bigger turn-off (or sleep inducer) than waiting for sex in a semi-dark room. Trust me on this.

    As for going to bed in general, then I think it depends on the type of relationship you have, or the stage of relationship you're in. Personally, if it's not a special occassion, then just be yourself. Wear your face mask and orthodontic head gear ... he's going to see it at some point. But, if it's a short term thing, and he'll be gone in a few weeks, then I'd probably suck it up and lose the mouth guard. Just grind your teeth that night.

    Personally, I've never given a second thought to a partner's night or morning routine. It's just a part of who you are.

    Besides, a lot of us still think women are wonderful and mysterious. Your routines, your habits and your idiosyncracies are all a part of what fascinate us.

    Of course, this is coming from the same person who had to run the faucet for ten minutes in order to take an emergency dump at a chick's apartment. Sometimes you just have to decide, does he see you in your Kiehl's anti-aging face mask or do you let her think you're OCD about hand washing?

    By Blogger Christopher, at 6:44 PM  

  • I always believe in being "you". They will eventually see "you" anyway. Please note that I'm single. ;-)

    My stupid question of the moment is "who is Moz?" What kind of music - sounds good from your writing, but please more info before I buy & then regret...

    and I think you WILL see me on the other blog - I've been thinking of doing one, & joining the group thing is probably just the baby step I need to get me going. thanks for the invite/push!! (needed push, not the bad push kinda thing)

    By Blogger Tug, at 6:15 PM  

  • Tug -- BLOG ADDICT. Ha. We've turned you!

    See, Susan? Christopher said pretty much what I've told you. Guys are not paying nearly as much attention to things like the time in the am as we think they are. They? Are not girls. And, frankly, vive la difference!

    By Blogger kT, at 8:58 AM  

  • Anyone heard of a pharmacy site called www.1medstore.net? I got great generic Ambien from them delivered to me in quickly. I used the promo code FIRST and I got $15.00 off my order. I know it is still valid since my friend just ordered...anyone else heard of www.1medstore.net? I really like them! Sarah

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:06 AM  

  • Anyone heard of a pharmacy site called www.1medstore.net? I got great generic Ambien from them delivered to me in quickly. I used the promo code FIRST and I got $15.00 off my order. I know it is still valid since my friend just ordered...anyone else heard of www.1medstore.net? I really like them! Sarah

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 9:20 AM  

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