Truly Disappointing

Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Pete and Repeat

You know how Smoky the Bear always tells us that only YOU can stop forest fires? And you remember Heinlein, through Mike Smith, telling us that Thou art God, God groks? And you remember the Wal-Mart mentality discussions?

It all boils down to personal responsibility and the fact that if you're the one with the habit, only you can break it.

If you don't want the drama, don't get on the damn stage.

I have no problem with the hand job as a concept. Not even in practice. Giving, getting, watching, it's all good.

But when you know that you are getting nothing out of this and you'll be upset by it later, why??

Let's just go back to Heinlein: the central concept that he had right, misogyny aside, was that sex and all that surrounds it is one of the greatest happinesses we have as humans. If it feels good and makes people happy, you're doing it right. If you feel bad afterwards, or there is guilt inducing you to it or stemming from it, you're fucking up something that is supposed to be GOOD.

Lecture/rant done. I just don't get it.


  • yes i hear you and i agree. but i gotta say im not upset about it and there isnt any drama. and maybe the fact that there isnt is the problem. i pretty much dont care one way or another. i really should. i still feel like ive been drugged, just kinda wandering around life. i gotta figure out how to get out of this feeling.

    By Blogger Susan, at 1:48 PM  

  • Smokey The Bear says: Only YOU can prevent apathy.

    Woodsy The Owl says: Give a hoot. Period.

    From a guy's perspective, there's hell to pay if a guy gives a handjob only to get absolutely nothing in return. You also have to question why a guy would want a handjob and nothing else...

    By Blogger Pinky, at 2:20 PM  

  • Maybe the drama isn't attracted to you -- you're attracted to and capable of creating it. You want and need it.

    Again, it boils down the Heinlein maxim that if it's not feeling good -- mentally, emotionally, and physically -- you're doing something wrong.

    By Blogger kT, at 4:32 PM  

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